Mastering the Art of the Interview

Mastering the Art of the Interview
The interview process is a compilation of proven established techniques
and personal style. By virtue of interchanging these methods, we arrive
at an individual skill that will enable us to achieve success with the most
difficult of interviews. Outlined below are some of the most common
and unusual interview techniques related to the family/agency interview.
Hopefully you will enhance your existing skills by employing some of
these methods.
First impressions: In all interviews, the initial impression you make on a potential
employer is the most important. While this sounds basic and simplistic, nannies
continue to misjudge the appropriate attire to wear for the family or agency interview.
Specifically, " dress for the job you want ", what does this mean?, In two words,
professional and conservative. Try to put yourself in the interviewer’s shoes, a well
groomed individual conveys preparation and confidence without having said a single
word. At the conclusion of your interview, exhibit graciousness but not desperation,
leave the interviewer with a sense that your interview was time well spent. Remember,
there is no substitute for integrity, be honest and be yourself.
Non-Verbal Communications: The proverbial handshake, will generally be your initial
interaction with the interviewer. While this gesture seems rather insignificant, it
actually will give your interviewer an indication of your readiness and deportment
before you speak your first sentence. Think about the last time you exchanged a
handshake with someone and you thought they just walked out of a meat locker, or a
sauna. Your immediate attention was probably on the condition of your hand.
I suspect it may not go over well if your interviewer is having to wipe their hands on a
towel or they are having to stick them in their pockets to warm them up. Be cognizant
of your epidermal situation.
Eye Contact: Initiating and maintaining eye contact is critical. However, try not to do
so in a starring or glaring manner, as this will only make interviewers uncomfortable.
Occasionally observe your interviewers body language, this will help you in
determining the importance of certain subjects. Most people have what gamblers refer
to as a "Tell". This non verbal gesture is unique to each individual. When people are
passionate about a specific issue, they tend to become more animated when they
express themselves about the subject. When these opportunities present themselves, it is
a rare moment for you to articulate to the interviewer about a specific skill or
experience that coincides with their views or needs.
Verbal Communication: Knowing what you want to say is critical, but the approach
and delivery for how you say it is paramount. While this sounds very elementary, it
can make or break your interview. Typically, your interviewer is going to have a pretty
good idea of your individual level of job expertise. Moreover, they likely had
conversations with your past and present references, so it’s a good bet they know more
about you than you think. It is a good practice to nonchalantly emulate your
interviewers body language and behavior. Specifically, an energetic and outgoing
interviewer probably will not think positive thoughts about a prospective nanny who
slouches in her chair and answers most of questions in a apathetic or torpid manner.
However, don’t try so hard do this and ultimately make the atmosphere uncomfortable
for both you. Rehearse what you want to say at home in front of your spouse or a
friend. By doing so will only enhance your speaking ability, especially with the tough
questions. Finally, utilize voice inflection, this allows you to emphasize points of
interest as it relates to skills, techniques and experience you possess that would be
beneficial to the potential employer.